Has Southeast Asia become too touristy?

Thailand, Laos and Cambodia Every time I travel, I always consider going to a country in Southeast Asia.  When I was a school teacher I would travel during my six week vacation. Thailand was the first country I visited, where I went alone.   I intended to go to Vietnam and Laos on that trip but ran out of money. Travelling alone, I thought it was best to stick to Thailand. Laos seemed a lot more hardcore to me back then.   Four years later, my husband and I were deciding where to go, we both agreed that we should go to Laos and Cambodia.  Neither of us had been to those countries before.     We started off in Thailand and spent only two nights in Bangkok. We didn’t get off to a great start as my husband left his bank card in the cash machine at the airport. We realized when we got back to the hotel.


Going to the gym but not losing weight? Here are 6 reasons why.

Going to the gym but not losing much weight? You may have been going for a while but are finding you have reached a weight loss plateau. This can be disappointing. You may be following a training program that promises great results. The number of testimonials may have persuaded you to try it. But, for you it hasn’t worked out as well. Your expectations of weight loss may have been high but are not met. So, despite exercising, why are you not losing much weight?


Study finds white women consider Afro hair to be less attractive

Last year a study was conducted by The Perception Institute, in conjunction with Shea Moisture.  It examined the attitudes of people towards Afro-textured hair.  The Good Hair Survey measured the ratings of black and white women on a range of hairstyles. Here are the key findings:  


Losing the battle for natural hair? Locs and discrimination. 1

In recent natural hair news, there have been some major victories in the fight to simply wear our hair natural, in professional settings. After all, there is nothing unprofessional about Afro textured hair.  Here in the U.S, the Army were made to reconsider a dress code policy that banned braids, twists and many of the protective styles we rely on. Certain schools have also been challenged on their policies and made to change them, in order to incorporate young girls who wear their Afro-textured hair natural. Worldwide, we felt the plight of the young protesters at Pretoria High School for Girls in South Africa, they faced systematic racism.  The school’s hair policy and how it was implemented was simply a reflection of that. Then in the UK, Fulston Manor High school was challenged to update a policy that hadn’t been changed since 1973, and banned braids and braided extensions. Such policies, whether intentional or not, caused some form of distress to women and young girls who were told their hair didn’t comply. This may have pressured many of them to go back to chemical relaxers, which would have automatically put them in compliance with such policies.  This is why it is important to continue to speak up and challenge those who automatically view our hair as unprofessional, or not good enough.


When good products go wrong 2

We’ve been warned of the dangers of bad ingredients in hair products. Since going natural most naturalistas like to avoid products packed with chemicals that dry the hair,  and may eventually cause breakage.  We scrutinize product labels to look for those offenders which are usually hidden among a long list. But what happens when typically good ingredients become detrimental to the health of your hair?  How many of us even know to suspect these ingredients; when everyone  is telling you they are great or even essential for your hair? As with everything, we all have our differences. No matter how wonderful a product is, it may simply not work for certain individuals. So what are these products or ingredients that may be doing more harm than good?


UK High School Bans Braids and Braid Extensions

A change.org petition has been set up to campaign against the uniform policy of Fulston Manor School in Kent, England. A young student was told to remove her braided extensions upon returning to school after the summer holidays.  The hairstyle was considered to be against the school’s uniform policy. The policy posted on the school’s website states: “All extremes of hairstyles are not permitted in school. Examples of the types of style considered inappropriate are dying in non-natural hair colours, contrasting colours, hair extensions, beading, braiding and cuts shorter than No. 2.”


South African High School Suspends Policy Against Afro Textured Hair

The protests of black students from Pretoria High School For Girls in South Africa received world-wide support, with many drawing attention to the cause on Twitter.  It became a trending topic; with the hashtag: #StopRacismAtPretoriaGirlsHigh . The students were protesting the school’s code of conduct in relation to hairstyles. Check out the story and the code of conduct here. The protests took place at the School’s annual fair on the 27th of August, and sparked debate about racism at the school. The students claimed the policy discriminated against them for wearing their natural, Afro textured hair. They also claimed to have faced derogatory remarks from teachers and, no support from the school in addressing these matters. Pretoria High School has since suspended the hair policy after pressure from government ministers and the Board of Education in Gauteng SA.  A twenty-one day investigation into the school’s hair policy was ordered by Education Minister Panyaza Lesufi.  In a statement released August 30th on their facebook page, they stated that the policy should be suspended while a new and improved one is created.


Protests over South African High School’s policy allegedly against natural hair 3

While on Twitter I noticed a trending hashtag #StopRacismAtPretoriaGirlsHigh. I clicked on it and saw images of protests, and  tweets of support for girls protesting the school’s hair policy. On Saturday the 27th of August, Pretoria High School for Girls held its annual Spring Fair, this year the event was met with protests by some black students. The students who wear their Afro textured  hair natural were  protesting  the school’s policies pertaining to hair, which they believe discriminates against them.   Many claim to have faced pressure to straighten  their hair in order to conform to  the school’s code of conduct.  Some black students have even accused the school of discouraging them from speaking their native languages.